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  Former Pastor Must Serve 11/29 for Statutory Rape

The Chattanoogan [Tennessee]
March 5, 2007

http://www.chattanoogan.com/articles/article_102994.asp

The former pastor of Middle Valley Methodist Church was taken into custody on Monday to begin serving an 11 month and 29 day sentence at the county workhouse for statutory rape.

After a lengthy and emotional sentencing hearing, Criminal Court Judge Rebecca Stern gave Gregory Stanley Dempsey three years for statutory rape and a consecutive year for sexual battery by an authority figure.

He will be on intensive probation after he is released and must continue in a treatment program. He also cannot be around young children except for his 12-year-old daughter, the judge said.

Dempsey told the jury he "accepts full responsiblity" for a two-year homosexual relationship with a young church member, but he asked for "mercy" and for "probation."

He said he wanted to apologize to the victim, to the victim's family, as well as his own wife and daughter and former church members.

He said the incident has cost him to lose his home and life savings and he is having difficulty finding anyone who will hire him.

Police said the incidents started when Dempsey was minister of music at the Oak Street Baptist Church. He had taken that position in early 2002.

The youth, who was 16 at the time and is now 19, earlier said he was in the minister's office at the Oak Street Baptist Church on July 12, 2003. He said the minister "confided he had a homosexual relationship when he was 16 years old." The minister was 40 at the time.

He said the minister began to discuss sexual matters with him and showed him a book on sexual positions.

He said the minister placed a blindfold on him, removed his shorts and performed a sex act.

The youth said the same week he went to the minister's house on West Wind Drive. He said in the computer room of the house, the minister again performed a sex act on him.

He said the incidents continued at the minister's house between September 2003 and Thanksgiving 2003.

The youth testified at the sentencing hearing, saying he has gone away to college in another state and is trying to put the incidents behind him. He told the defendant, "I won't let you stop my life anymore. I'm ready to do something good with my life."

The victim's father said his son had been a musical prodigy, but the incidents had taken away much of his love for music.

He said while the abuse was going on, the minister on Sundays "would come up and hug my neck and thank me for letting (the son) be a part of his life."

Dempsey said he is attending weekly therapy sessions with other sex offenders.

He said he got a job selling insurance out of town, but could not make a living at it. He said he became a team leader at Convergys, but was fired when news of his arrest came out. He said he was also hired at Erlanger, but again fired when officials learned of his status.

He said he and his wife and daughter attended one church for three months, then were told they needed to leave the church. But he said the First Baptist Church of Soddy-Daisy has welcomed them with open arms.

He said he and his wife and daughter have had to move in with his mother-in-law, Jane Cook.

Dempsey's wife, Julia, testified in his behalf, calling him a good father and husband.

She acknowledged she was shocked when she found out about the incidents, but she said she is standing with her husband of 13 years.

Attorney Kent Moore also testified for Dempsey, saying he and his wife were instumentalists when Dempsey was leading the choir at Oak Street Baptist. He said he was an outstanding choir leader.

He said he has remained friends with Dempsey despite the charges.

Rev. Joe Miller of Oak Street Baptist said the wife of a staff member at the church thought she saw something between Dempsey and the youth.

He said Dempsey was confronted about it and "emphatically denied" that anything was going on.

 
 

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