Looking the other way: The accepted sexual abuse of young boys by institutional powers

By Donald Mccarthy
Salon
June 5, 2016

http://www.salon.com/2016/06/05/looking_the_other_way_the_accepted_sexual_abuse_of_young_boys_by_institutional_powers/

Dennis Hastert

Former Speaker of the House Dennis Hastert begins his prison sentence on June 22. His crime? Payoffs he gave a former athlete he trained. He is not, however, going to prison for his alleged molestation of at least four boys, one of whom was the man he was paying off while he was a wrestling coach.

Thanks to statute of limitations laws, he can’t be charged for what prosecutors allege he did to his athletes decades ago. This is, sadly not an uncommon case; the statute of limitation laws regarding sexual assault in the U.S. are in dire need of repair. What is surprising — although it will soon become apparent that it shouldn’t be — is the amount of letters former Republican officials sent to the judge in Hastert’s case, imploring him to go easy when it comes to sentencing.

That prominent members of a political party would come out, sans hesitation, to urge the justice system to go easy on a child predator is gruesome. However, there is ample historical precedent. The rape and molestation of boys and young men in established institutions is rampant and goes uncommented upon more often than not.

The most famous current day example would be the institutionalized rape within the Catholic Church. Far from simply having a few “bad seeds,” the Catholic Church has long harbored pedophiles, protecting them from consequences. Thanks to the patriarchal nature of the church, it is extremely difficult for victims to come forward because they’re not speaking out about one priest but instead the entire church structure that backs the priest, a structure that has long held political power across the globe.

Even more convenient is the church’s positions on homosexuality and sex in general, which instill guilt in the young men who are molested by priests. One bishop, Robert Cunningham, even suggested during a deposition that the victims might have been encouraging the priests to go along with it, continuing the idea that the victims might be to blame. Despite calls for his resignation, Cunningham is still the bishop of Syracuse and has faced no repercussions for his words. It remains difficult to imagine Cunningham being able to adequately handle a case of sexual abuse in his diocese after these comments, but the church apparently disagrees.

To this day, the church uses its institutional power to attempt to silence victims. In efforts led by New York Cardinal Timothy Dolan, the church reportedly has paid more than $2.1 million to lobbyists to block sex abuse laws that would help victims. Dolan’s Catholic Conference has argued against this bill by claiming it will cost the church money. That church officials can outright say they are against sex abuse laws simply because it will cost them money and face little to no public pushback goes to show how entrenched the acceptance of abuse is when it comes from institutions.

The Penn State scandal that broke in November 2011 shows an institution in another realm, the sports realm, that has allowed sexual abuse of young boys to go on without comment until the last possible moment. If coach Joe Paterno, who apparently knew of the actions of now convicted sexual abuser Jerry Sandusky, had been an average citizen there is ample reason to believe he would have been ostracized from the community and perhaps even faced charges for looking the other way.

Since Paterno (who died in 2012) was part of a powerful sports organization, he was instead defended, and not just by the institution itself; students at Penn State rioted when Joe Paterno was fired. So accustomed to the power institutional figures hold and so used to a world where members of an institution can get away with anything, the students’ reaction was to push back against one of the rare instances when a corrupt figure went down. If none of the other figures throughout history had to fall, then why should their beloved coach? Let the victims sort themselves out.

Looking at the students who protested Paterno’s firing could cause blood pressure to rise, but their actions are not any different from those GOP members who wrote the letters about Hastert or those in the church, like Dolan, who continue to cover for sexual abuse. The students were merely reacting the way they’ve seen others react, which is by saying, “Stop getting upset; this is how things have always been so don’t blow it out of proportion.”