Guest column: Open your eyes

NORTH CAROLINA
Greenville Online

Written by
Ryan Ferguson
Guest Columnist

This weekend within a 10-mile radius of Greenville over 900 churches will gather together for their worship. Census data reveals that nearly 58 percent of Greenville County citizens will meet in churches. The respective clergy from these congregations will see over 250,000 people.

One certainty transcends differences between these churches. One stark reality should cause the eyes of Greenville’s ministers to see their people with greater compassion. In every one of these congregations, ministry leaders stand in front of survivors of childhood sexual abuse.

Unfortunately the church is not necessarily known as a safe place for those who have been hurt by this crime. Rather than leading the charge the church is scandalized by reports of abuse within her ranks. Instead of seeking justice and providing safe, healing environments for survivors and their families, the church has become known for its cover ups and lack of competence and compassion when caring for those hurt by sexual abuse.

This must change. Church leaders must open their eyes to this issue and begin to address it. For many, addressing childhood sexual abuse will start with an admission that they need help because they don’t know what to do. For others, simple dialogue will be the first step. Talking about the issue of childhood sexual abuse will not only serve those who have already been hurt but will begin a process for future prevention and protection of children.

Church leaders must act in concert with others rather than in isolation when sexual abuse occurs. Church leaders must not isolate themselves from law enforcement or other organizations that can assist them with a proper response. In an effort to begin the dialogue in the greater Greenville region, North Hills Community Church will be hosting a conference on Sept. 20 and 21 called Open Your Eyes.

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