I knew telling my story would be costly. I didn’t know that it would be this costly.
I published my story in Anabaptist World because I saw institutions related to the Mennonite Church USA ignore and minimize abusive behavior again and again. I wanted to share my first-hand experience with one of those institutions–Anabaptist Mennonite Biblical Seminary (AMBS)–and acknowledge the ways that AMBS employees both helped me and pushed me toward danger. Through the process of my separation and divorce, I received many gestures of care from the AMBS community, along with harmful admonitions about forgiveness and reconciliation. Both happened. I thought, and still think, that I wrote a piece that exposed the damaging patterns at AMBS while also expressing gratitude for tremendous support and generosity.
A few weeks after the publication of my Anabaptist World piece, I had a…
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