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Waiting for Godot to Leave
OK, I’m going to get this out of my system.
Members of my immediate family have been victimized by sexual abuse. I can tell you personally of the pain it causes. I can tell you that when an otherwise good Catholic that I will not identify writes a blog post in which she argues that if an adult has sex with, say, a fourteen year old it’s not CHILD ABUSE because teens are sexual creatures and when priests have sex with them (she argues in so many words) it’s because the kids want it- I want to scream.
When one of the best men I know is thrown into a dark night of the soul, into drinking and weeping over Bishop Finn enabling CHILD ABUSE and members of Finn’s Opus Dei prelature covering up, lying, and making excuses for him and belittling the severity of this abuse – I want to get drunk and weep a bit myself.
When commenters here and elsewhere on the blogosphere are defending Fr. Groeschel’s indefensible defense of abusers, which consisted of blaming the victims for seducing them; and when these same commenters read Bill Donohue’s lies but refuse to read the facts of the case regarding Bishop Finn’s conviction – I want to hit somebody.
And for me this is tied in with everything else.
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