Iglesia Decalza
I’ve been reading the results of the preparatory surveys for the Synod on the Family — and the numerous commentaries and opinions expressed by different individuals and groups. As the Synod begins, I would like to add my “wish list” of things I think this Synod could realistically achieve:
1. De-linking marriage and procreation
To me, one of the most troublesome questions on the initial survey was 7f: “How can a more open attitude towards having children be fostered? How can an increase in births be promoted?”. The Church should not be in the business of promoting increases in births. It should be in the business of promoting responsible parenthood — Catholic couples having only the number of children they want and are able to provide for. For some couples, the choice to remain childless is reasonable, whether due to life circumstances, the health of the wife or husband, or the desire not to pass on certain genetic abnormalities. The Church needs to respect that decision and allow couples to marry even when they cannot have children or don’t want to, and they shouldn’t have to lie about their intentions in order to receive the sacrament. It does so already in the case of post-menopausal women so it would not be much of a stretch to extend this practice to those who are childless by choice rather than biology.
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