Does Jesus’ command to love our enemies mean Christian women must remain in abusive marriages? That’s the troubling claim Pastor Paul LeBoutillier made in a recent sermon at Calvary Chapel in Boise, Idaho. While acknowledging that abuse is “terrible,” he implied Jesus’ words about loving abusers apply to abusive husbands.
Is that a faithful reading of Scripture or a distortion rooted in patriarchy? To unpack this, host Julie Roys is joined by author and abuse survivor Naghmeh Panahi and relationship coach Leslie Vernick, a leading voice on marriage and emotional health.
Naghmeh, known globally for advocating for persecuted Christians when her ex-husband Saeed Abedini was imprisoned in Iran, later revealed she had long endured abuse in her marriage. Her memoir, I Didn’t Survive, traces her painful awakening—and how the Christian community often turned on her for speaking out.
Leslie Vernick, author of The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, has…
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