BERGEN (NJ)
North Jersey Record
June 3, 2019
By Steve Janoski
Two well-known brothers, living what looked like ordinary lives in their respective hometowns.
One was a proud father and Denville middle school principal who filled his Twitter feed with his students’ accomplishments. The other worked for the family’s long-running South Orange construction business by day and served on a handful of Florham Park municipal boards at night.
But Paul Iantosca, of Randolph, and Mark Iantosca, of Florham Park, apparently hid a black secret that torched their ambitions: An alleged sexual preference for underage boys. Mark, 55, is now serving a seven-year sentence in state prison for sexually abusing a teenage nephew, while Paul, 52, was charged two weeks ago with attempting to sexually abuse a former student in Denville after telling police he arranged on social media to meet the 16-year-old for sex.
Valleyview Middle School principal Paul Iantosca is accused of attempting to sexually assault a former student.
Valleyview Middle School principal Paul Iantosca is accused of attempting to sexually assault a former student. (Photo: Gene Myers/NorthJersey.com)
The arrests, separated by two years, stunned the communities in which they occurred. But experts are not surprised that two men with much to lose appeared so willing to risk it.
“We look at people who are public figures, or in positions of power or in positions of respect and say, ‘Well, how could someone with these issues get to that position?'” said Michael Donahue, a Lawrenceville attorney who represents sexual assault victims. “In reality, every person is different and there are people who have some incredibly dark sides to them.”
Professionals said that in general, childhood trauma contributes heavily to such behavior later in life, but there’s no scientific way to predict who might eventually commit a sex crime against a minor.
Paul Iantosca’s recent arrest comes at a pivotal point in New Jersey’s fight to hold accountable those accused of past sexual abuse. In February, the state’s five Catholic dioceses released the names of 188 priests and deacons credibly accused of sexually abusing childrenover decades, dating back to the 1940s. Three months later, the state passed a law giving child sex abuse victims until the age of 55 to decide whether to sue their abusers — a 35-year extension from the previous statute.
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