Stollar, a child liberation theologian who fought for homeschooled kids, died by suicide this week. A fellow survivor on grief, legacy and what advocates owe themselves.
On June 28, 2026, Ryan Stollar — age 42, writer, child liberation theologian and advocate for children’s rights — died by suicide. The impact of his death has been rippling through my community of survivors and advocates the past few days. I feel intense grief over his loss, as well as mixed feelings about his public legacy and his final words to us. What I know for certain is Ryan helped change my life.
The first time I crossed paths with Ryan was around 2013, when I discovered Homeschoolers Anonymous, which I later learned Ryan had co-founded. I was in my mid-twenties and finding my way out of the Christian patriarchy movement. I was a stay-at-home daughter, which meant I was not allowed to…
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