As many of our readers know, I officiate a lot of funerals. In addition to nearly 17 years as pastor with responsibilities for such things, I officiate pick-up funerals for families who do not have a church or a minister. Thus, I have been to and led hundreds of funerals.
It is rare for anyone to stand up at a funeral and speak ill of the dead — unless maybe in jest. But sometimes truth must be told that is hard to hear. I’ve been to those funerals, too. Ones where family members stood and said, “He was difficult and distant” or “He worked more than he spent time with family.” Painful truths, to be sure.
But sometimes, when a public figure dies who has harmed many people, the truth needs to be told anyway.
You may recall that when Paul Pressler died, his family hid his death and his funeral…
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