What a Catholic abuse settlement offer reveals about reparative justice.
I’m not too precious about profanity, but I do keep some words sacred. “Sorry” is one of them. I pause before I use it, on Slack or in texts. I live in London, a place where it is mumbled reflexively. I’ve tried not to pick up that habit.
A misused “sorry” can send relationships spinning out of orbit — an excessive apology can prompt someone to feel suddenly and unnecessarily aggrieved. Alternatively, a careful “sorry” can reset the balance of things.
I often question, though, if some harms are too grievous to repair — even with a really meaningful apology. That’s a question about redemption that is at the core of many theologies. It’s also one that’s been in the news this past week, as institutions reckon with severe historical wrongdoing.
Friday was Juneteenth, marking the day in 1865 when…
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