[Image above: St. Maria Goretti. See also Yakima Diocese monument in Calvary Cemetery criticized by clergy sex abuse victim advocates, by Joel Donofrio, Yakima Herald, December 17, 2023, previously blogged in Abuse Tracker.
In an uncanny turn of events, Catholic officials throughout the United States appear embroiled in redefining norms surrounding the grisly subject of abuse – intentionally or unintentionally, it seems – and thereby sending not one but three distressing messages. Let’s break it down:
3 Powerful Yet Troubling Messages About Abuse
- Message to Vulnerable Youngsters: Some might interpret these actions, sadly, as follows, “If you fall prey to a predator but manage to fight them off, pardon their transgressions, and your family tiles over the cracks too; we honor your courage.”
- Message to Wounded Survivors: The narrative morphs, twisting the knife of past trauma even deeper. “The abuser in your story doesn’t matter. All that matters…

